Reflexive verbs and its pronouns


`Verbos Reflexivos y sus pronombres´

A reflexive verb is the verb which action affects directly on the subject.

It is important to remember that reflexive verbs are used together with a reflexive pronoun. These are: me / te / se / nos / os / se

Let’s have a look a some simple examples:

  • Me visto – I get dressed
  • Nosotros nos lavamosWe wash ourselves

When the action refers to some part of ourselves then we don’t need to include the possessive article because we are already mentioning that the subject is us. Example:

  • El se lava los dientes -He brushes his teeth (we don’t include the possessive article his but the indefinite THE)
  • Yo me corto las uñasI cut my nails (we write ‘the nails’, instead of ‘my nails’)

Included in this type of sentence would be the reciprocal use. This means when there is plural subject which does the action to each other. Number and person subject is expressed as well in the pronoun. Example:

  • Luis y yo nos abrazamosLuis and I hug each other
  • Ellos se llaman todos los días – They phone each other everyday

Secondly, there is a use of reflexive verb in order to change the meaning of a verb in a sentence. Best way to understand this is with few examples.

  • Sara queda con su amiga en el parqueSara meets her friend at the park -this is a non reflexive sentence. Quedar means to meet
  • Este vestido me queda bien – This dress suits me well -this is a reflexive sentence used to give a different meaning to the verb. Quedar means to suit.
  • El director acordó con el sindicato cerrar el lunesThe director agreed with the union to close on Monday -non reflexive sentence. Acordar means to agree
  • No me acordé de coger las llaves – I didn’t remember to take the keys -reflexive sentence. Acordarse means to remember

There are some verbs which are always used in a reflexive sentence: arrepentirse (to regret)

Below is a list of common verbs that are used as reflexive verbs in Spanish:

poner (to put)ponerse (to wear/dress)
sentar (to sit)sentarse
vestir (to dress up)vestirse
levantar (to lift)levantarse (to get up)
bañar (to bath)bañarse
cepillar (to brush)cepillarse
duchar (to shower)ducharse
lavar (to wash)lavarse
quitar (to take off/remove)quitarse
despertar (to wake up)despertarse
acostar (to lay down)acostarse
enfardar (to annoy)enfadarse (to get angry)
mirar (to look)mirarse
*some verbs change complete meaning when used as reflexive

In this other table you can check the articles used for reflexive sentences

Subjectdirect complementindirect complementPrepositions usedreflexive particle
yomemea, de, para, míme
tutetea, de, para, tite
él, ustedle,sele/loa, de, para, él, ello, usted, síse
ella, ustedle, selaa, de, para, ella, ello, ustedse
nosotros/asnosnosa, de, para, nosotros/asnos
vosotros/asososa, de, para, vosotros/asos
ellos, ustedesles, seles/losa, de, para, ellos, ustedes, síse
ellas, ustedesles, selasa, de, para, ellas, ustedes, síse

con + mi = conmigo

con + ti = contigo

con + si = consigo

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